My parents are very modern day African-American people. We don't have African artifacts inside of our house, or any civil rights memorabilia. But yet we still have culture and traditions that we follow. As a child every Christmas I would make my parents their gifts by hand, but every since I got into high school, their gifts have been purchased. This makes them a bit upset because they say the love and care put into hand made gifts mean much more. But they don't complain with a shiny silver watch on their wrist, or a golden choker around their neck.
Another way i try to honor my parents culture is by going to visit my grandmother and listen in on her stories of her civil rights activism in the 60's so i would be able to spread them to the future generations in our family. Yet the way i will tell her story will not be in the angered and hateful tone, but I will deliver my words in a more informal way so that way i won't appear as upset about it as she is and not spread the hate and anger to them.
Both of my parents came from homes in poverty. My dad lived in a house with a single mom and four other kids, him being the middle child, thus being very neglected. He picked up basketball at a young age and went on a full ride at Texas Southern University. I on the other hand live in the suburbs with two parents who have very lavish salaries, and give me plenty of attention and care. My parents are one of the very first and few in both families to go to college and have plenty of money on their own. I plan to break of from their previous generations failure of a tradition as well, and help start a new one.
My parents are married, and their parents before, and their parents before them as well. I for one do not plan on or have any intentions of settling down and getting married to anyone. I don't care if it's Halle Berry, Beyonce, or the Jet Beauty of the Month. Personally i believe majority of marriages these days are rushed and forced, and are lucky to last a year or two. I prefer to have a relationship with someone I care about for a really, really, really, long time.